What are you proud of?

In reading the book, Tribal Leadership by Dave Logan, John King and Halee Fischer-Wright, I am continually struck by how the best questions are the most simple. I meet with and work with companies that are complex in a lot of ways, and in that complexity the reason for existence gets blurry, muddy, or just plain lost. Here is the question:

“What are you most proud of?”

If you take that question in the broadest sense, you will get insightful and meaningful answers. That question gives us the fundamental building blocks to answer an even more profound question: Why? As in, why do I do what I do and live the way I live?

Well, in the spirit of sharing, here is my answer to the question: What am I most proud of?

(I’m going to answer this question as it relates to my career and professional development because a holistic answer to this question would take many pages.)

I’m most proud that I have taken great strides to subjugate my own ego to truly serve and learn from others. I’m proud because my profile is a difficult one when it comes to listening and not seeing the success of others as detrimental to my own success. I am most proud of this because it has allowed me to be a better man. It has allowed me to impact the lives of others with selfless intent, and not claim ownership. It’s allowed me to create a timeline where I am able to measure myself, to a degree, through the eyes of those whom I’ve been able to help advance in the world. It’s also allowed me to see more clearly those whom I have let down, disappointed, and just plain failed. Admitting that I have failed others and will likely fail again is a freeing realization to me.

Right now, that is the best answer I can give relative to my career and professional development.

Exercise: What are you most proud of? Take 5 minutes today and reflect on that question. Whether your highest priority is managing difficult people, determining if you have organizational alignment, or simply learning your true core values, you’ll find this exercise worthwhile. If you struggle to focus, go for a walk, or close your door and shut your eyes. The answer to this question is of the utmost importance when looking at the larger question of: Why?

Managing Workplace Stress

My first recommendation in my work for ADVISA with PI® clients in Ohio and Michigan is to minimize stress on your team by matching people to work using our personality assessment.

It is not unusual to find that people who are in jobs that constantly require them to act in ways that are directly opposite of their personality preferences suffer from stress-related maladies. People who suffer from physical ailments obviously aren’t going to be contributing at the top of their game.

On the other side of the coin, when your work is consistent with what you enjoy most then you will be most-engaged and productive.

A recent study on alternative stress management techniques highlights that attitudes about stress itself can also affect performance. When stress is seen as highly negative it generates a “fight or flight” response – which ADDS TO THE STRESS!

If improving employee morale is your goal then your strategy should include systematic talent management that assesses job requirements and evaluates candidates’ personal qualities. You should also consider how stress is percieved in your organization to minimize the “fight or flight” response.

Creating Employee Engagement

ALL THE NOSES IN THE SAME DIRECTION!

 

 

Most organizations have gone through the values – mission – vision stage. By now, these documents are covered in dust. Many are still displayed in reception areas and board rooms. But most managers don’t really pay attention to them anymore. So it is not really surprising that many people site “lack of direction” as the single most irritating factor in the company they work for.

 

We forget that the goal of these documents was to bring people together around a common theme. The end result was never as important as the road to get there; the discussion was to be the catharsis. It is the leveling that occurs that brings people on the same page. A day talking about your values-mission-vision statement can be invaluable!

 

Too often even the actual strategy remains a mystery! Small companies are often lead by the original entrepreneur, and she is surprised to hear her immediate co-workers don’t comprehend the strategy she has spent many a waking night to develop. And the same disconnect easily develops in a larger organization, where the plan devised by the top is just not disclosed to the troops, or as a minimum, not understood. A few tips to avoid this disconnect:

 

  • Verbalize your strategy in a clear and concise way. Use a few sentences if you have to, but the shorter and simpler, the better. Use a pictorial if possible.
  • A strategy is not a dream. Make it a call to action, an achievable and believable goal that everyone, from top to bottom, can believe in.
  • Engage in true dialogue. Take it from Alan Greenspan:

 “I have never found the arbitrary use of authority to control an organization either effective, or, for that matter, personally interesting. If you cannot persuade your colleagues of the correctness of your position, it is probably worthwhile to rethink your own.”

  • Every team member on your payroll needs to have clear goals, directly linked to the achievement of the overall strategy. Demonstrate your commitment to these goals by a clear prioritization: how critical is the strategy if my contribution is just part of my day to day tasks, and many other goals also need to be achieved? It sends the message that it is OK to point your nose in the right direction at a specific time only. And that is wrong!
  • If you don’t have the discipline to follow a strategy, then don’t waste time putting one together! Now I live by the dictum “What is the point of having a mind if you cannot change it”! You’d better change the strategy if you discover a better one! But be consistent, and follow your plan until you come up with a better one. And at that stage, communicate the new plan, and start the cascading process anew.
  • Follow up. Make sure the individual’s goals are met. Find out why deviations occur. Use your Plan-Do-Check-Adjust cycle. Get people to assist one another where needed so the overall goal does not get compromised. Jump in where your expertise can help, or throw more resources at the issue. And demonstrate your commitment to achieving the goal by your actions!
  • Visualize your strategy, the cascading goals and the progress made. It will point out to all which noses are not aligned. Peer pressure never hurts!

 

 

Following this process with rigor will make sure people understand how they feature in the overall goal of the company, and why their noses should point in the same direction. Make sure they know that exceptions won’t be tolerated. You cannot afford a lack of discipline in this area!

The benefits of strategic planning , and a sound strategic planning service to help you through the cycle are vital getting your employees truely motivated. It is a key component of best HR Practices.